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From: Alan Badmington (to Tara) (part 2) ;-)
Date: 22 Oct 2007
Time: 05:16:14 -0500
Remote Name: 195.194.75.225
Hi Tara, I had to prematurely terminate my earlier response because I am at the local library, where my allotted time (on the computer)was rapidly drawing to a close. Further to what I initially wrote, it would be desirable for a client to commence expanding his/her comfort zone with a relatively simple task (for example, making a telephone call to enquire about train schedules, or stopping someone in the street to ask for directions, or the time). Starting with an assignment that is too challenging might deter the client, as fear levels are likely to be high in the first instance. As my confidence grew, I wanted to increase the challenging nature of the task. The success we achieve will be proportionate to the risks we take, and we become increasingly powerful as our lives expand to accommodate more experiences. As our power increases, so does our confidence in our own ability. We find it easier to continue the process of stretching our comfort zones, in spite of any fears that we may experience. I certainly found that I became more adventurous as time progressed, the magnitude of the risks expanding correspondingly. You also asked, "How would you suggest introducing this idea to a client?". I think it is important to explain why you are suggesting that he/she should undertake such challenges. Acquaint him/her with the principles and advantages of expanding our comfort zones (as outlined in my paper - STEP OUTSIDE..."). It has been my experience that people tend to respond more readily when they understand the reason they are being asked to do things that they might generally avoid. Then, draw up a list of proposed challenges in conjunction with your client. By all means offer suggestions, but bear in mind that your clients are the persons who will be required to carry them out. Without their agreement, the exercise is unlikely to be meaningful or successful. You will need to encourage and support your clients, as some of the tasks will be totally alien to their comfortable lifestyle. Why not lead by example and accompany your client out onto the streets and, in doing so, challenge yourself? ;- Encourage your client to have fun with his/her speech. That's exactly what I have been doing so for the past seven years - and I don't intend to apply the brakes now. ;-) I wish you every suiccess with your studies. Kindest regards Alan