Solution-Oriented Life: A Journey to Imperfect Fluency

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Urgentizing - the demand and disturbed feelings that everything should be accomplished immediately

From: Gunars Neiders
Date: 15 Oct 2007
Time: 11:54:20 -0500
Remote Name: 67.171.0.68

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Y'all, I forgot to add that I have found out that the feelings of urgency, what I call "urgentizing" has a detrimental effect on my fluency. I have learned every day and in every situation to strive for serenity. I prioritize what I want to do accomplish and calmly set about doing it. Entering a conversation, I remind myself not to urgentize, but to calmly try to accomplish my communicative goals.


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