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From: David Shapiro
Date: 09 Oct 2007
Time: 11:23:30 -0500
Remote Name: 156.83.1.251
Hi Susan, Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. I found your message to be touching and thought provoking. I know, as difficult as it is, that finding the positive in the most painful of situations indeed is part of being real. Surely being real is not easy. I am so sorry to learn of the loss of your father. The loss is felt that much greater because of the remarkable relationship you both had and the confidence you know he has in you. That loss, one day, will translate into the most beautiful of memories. I think of such a lasting relationship as a “safe house,” one that is not time limited but rather one that transcends time and place. Do embrace the confidence you feel from your father; do go on to make a real difference in the world. I know that graduate school and events beyond may test you from time to time and lead you to question why you set such ambitious goals. Unlike some other people, you have a reason. That is essential. Believe in him and yourself. When I read your message, I thought immediately of my grandfather. I too have taken the confidence I know he had in me and tried to make something of myself. There are times and events that continue to evoke thoughts of him. I realize that there is much we don’t and can’t know. Despite the mystery, his legacy is positive; your father’s will be likewise in you. I must apologize for the delay in my reply. I am in the Netherlands where I am involved in ISAD activities (and where all computer commands are in Dutch). Please know that I am thinking of you. Feel free to contact me if you wish. Good luck always. David Shapiro