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Re: Falling Back Into Old Habits

From: Lynne Shields
Date: 19 Oct 2008
Time: 11:41:30 -0500
Remote Name: 76.215.118.209

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Pam, Well, you really don't need an answer, since you already figured out that you want to let this incident go. You just haven't quite yet figured out how to go in this particular instance. In the past, when you have become too focused on something and know you just need to move on, what has been successful in helping you do this? Thinking about how you want to manage another similar situation in the future? Seeing the humor in what happened? Perhaps you could to tell a friend the story about how you went to Cayuga University. Meditating on the situation until you have thought about it enough to imagine it slip through your fingers and fall to a small pile of 'it's over and done' on the floor? From what I've read on this conference, you seem to be a person who has some great personal resources. That, of course, doesn't mean you won't ever do anything that you regret. But, it does suggest to me that you have the strength to get past this one event and move on. I'd like to hear how you finally figure this one out. Regards, Lynne


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