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From: Lynne
Date: 18 Oct 2008
Time: 10:16:10 -0500
Remote Name: 76.215.118.209
Kerry, The situation you describe is unfortunate for the child and it seems to be truly frustrating for you. As this child's SLP all that you can do is to be supportive when you interact with her, and to look for ways to foster support by the adults in her life, regardless of how often they may change. When her parent or current babysitter are present, you can work to foster their sense of being able to assist the child. For example, if you see the mom or babysitter doing anything positive toward the child, smiling at her, listening to her, having a conversation, etc., you can comment on that--e.g., "You really pay attention to what Susie says. That must make her feel cared for." Pointing out positive behaviors on the part of adults will build their self-esteem and probably increase the likelihood that they will repeat the behavior that you commented on. With some adults, you may have to look pretty hard, but that is a concrete thing that you can do to foster positive interactions with the child. I wish you all the best. Regards, Lynne