Working Together to Make Therapy Work: Getting Others in on the Act

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Support outside the clinician's room is so important

From: Alan Badmington
Date: 20 Oct 2008
Time: 04:45:08 -0500
Remote Name: 195.194.75.225

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Hi Lynne, I share your view that support outside the clinician’s room is of prime importance. It is imperative that clients give themselves permission to use the new techniques/tools with which they have been equipped. When they see/hear parents/spouses/loved ones speaking in a similar manner, they are more likely to follow suit. It is a clear message that they are not alone – it becomes more acceptable. I have known instances where spouses (who lack an understanding of the reason(s) for the techniques/tools) have expressed the view that they “do not like their partner’s new way of speaking”. Such comments/attitudes can create friction and discourage the client from following instructions/guidelines. It is essential that such persons are brought on board. My wife has voluntarily accompanied me to every support meeting that I have attended since 2000 (at which point I adopted a different approach to my stuttering). She has, therefore, been fully conversant with each new step that I have trodden and supported me (without assuming any of my speaking responsibilities) along the way. I appreciate that I have been incredibly fortunate. Best wishes to you and your family. Kindest regards Alan


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