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From: Alan (to Marion)
Date: 21 Oct 2009
Time: 11:57:38 -0500
Remote Name: 84.68.163.67
Hi Marion, If I had retained my limited self-image (that had been shaped by my negative experiences and disempowering beliefs), I would have resisted my efforts to embrace change. As I mentioned in my paper, when I relinquished my old self-image, I discovered incredible opportunities for growth. It was so liberating to find out that the power to reappraise (and change) my beliefs and thinking lay within my own hands. Having purposely allowed my stutter to exclude me from involvement in public speaking throughout my life, I found it exhilarating when I finally realised that it was enjoyable to stand in front of an audience. I initially sampled that elation while speaking to large groups of other PWS via a stuttering management programme whose services I had enlisted. I simply wanted more of the same – I developed a burning desire to challenge myself in other public speaking situations outside that safe and supportive environment. I joined three public speaking clubs, travelling considerable distances in order to attend their meetings. But it was worth it! I rapidly gained in confidence and (within a relatively short period of time) began winning the silverware in competition with fluent people. My speaking engagements have taken me to three different continents during recent years – I have met so many people. In the UK, I undertake an extensive programme of talks to community organisations in an attempt to increase public awareness about stuttering. I also receive numerous invitations to speak about non-stuttering topics. My diary of commitments already extends as far ahead as December 2010. I sometime have to pinch myself to check if I am dreaming. :-) Marion, once I realised my potential as a public speaker, I became highly motivated. I actively sought as many speaking opportunities as I could. I wanted to make up for lost time. :-) When we achieve something that we, hitherto, regarded impossible, it causes us to reconsider our limiting beliefs. If we conquer something that has challenged our advancement, we grow in stature. When we overcome hurdles, it opens our eyes to possibilities that we could never have imagined. When we are stretched by a new experience, we likewise grow as human beings. Thank you, so much, for your valued contribution to the threaded discussion. Kindest regards Alan