Dealing with Fear: Exercises and Persistence

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Re: To fear or not to fear....

From: Anita
Date: 10 Oct 2009
Time: 13:24:00 -0500
Remote Name: 217.209.3.225

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Yes, my dear friend, we all have our fears. But we need to learn more about it to know what to do with it, fight, fly or ignore. Avoiding is ok, as long if that's what you want. If you are not interested in roller coasters, it's not important if you are afraid of them. But what if you love the ride? Avoiding heights because you're scared is ok. But what if that means you need to walk another 100 miles to get round it? Been there, done that. I not only missed out on making friends, I didn't give them the chance to get to know me! I was in love with the guy all girls were in love with and one day I got to walk with him! I talked (stuttered) and he listened. And than I stumbled... I was afraid of talking, and he didn't care. I was not afraid of making a fool of myself and I did by stumbling. What a waste of energy. But now you know that lots of girls think stuttering is cute, right? :-) You're the man, Richard and me and ELSA are happy and proud to be a part of your life. Be who you are and keep talking! Hugs, Anita


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