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From: Chris
Date: 13 Oct 2009
Time: 19:13:12 -0500
Remote Name: 76.183.230.202
Hi, Kristina, Beautiful, beautiful comments and insight! I spent so many years thinking that those who mind MUST matter because I wanted to win them over. I was always a perfectionist and that meant getting 100% raves from everyone when it came to my communication capabilities and reputation so I worried more about those who "minded" and thought they "mattered" more. You've added a wonderful fresh spotlight back onto the truth -- those that don't mind do matter the most! Thanks for sharing that beautiful point of view. And, ironically, my grandsons and I were watching the Grinch last night! Someone should do an analogical study between the Grinch and stuttering! Bet there would be an interesting core set of values learned. Wanting acceptance so bad so shunning people in order to avoid "not" being accepted. Avoiding the pain hurts less than living the magic of life fully. We always need to fight that one for PWS. Thanks again, Chris