C.S.I.: Communication Scene Investigation

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Re: Projection vs Personalization

From: tim mackesey
Date: 17 Oct 2011
Time: 12:59:45 -0500
Remote Name: 74.190.185.242

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I know this is a duplicate. See the last post. Projection example: "If I stutter, the interviewer will think I am incompetent." The pws imagines knowing what the listener will think. Personalization: "Stuttering on this phone call will mean I failed...I am in therapy now and should say it right!!" This is "black and white thinking": stuttering = failure. Have you read David Burns "top ten forms of twisted thinking?" Really good.


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