Covert Stuttering: Coming Out Of The Closet

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Re: Difference between covert stuttering and people who learn thg...

From: Jill Douglass
Date: 07 Oct 2012
Time: 15:00:40 -0500
Remote Name: 130.123.104.22

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Hi Kathryn, I agree, this all looks a bit gray doesn’t it! My answer will only scratch the surface of possible responses. One major difference between using fluency shaping techniques and covertly stuttering is this: saying what you want to say when you want to say it. Fluency shaping techniques are created to attempt to decrease the tension that occurs around a moment of stuttering with the intended message; being a communicator and saying what you want to say is primary importance and not stuttering is secondary importance. Covert stuttering techniques attempt to not allow audible stuttering to occur no matter what it takes. With covert stuttering attempting to keep the message together is of secondary importance and not stuttering is the primary importance. Unfortunately, fluency shaping techniques that reinforce the primary importance as not stuttering may enhance the likelihood of increasing covert behaviours. In regards to the second question: How should you respond if a person who stutters comes out to you? The most basic suggestion I can give to you is: Listen. Actively listening to what the client is saying requires you to set aside any judgements or agenda. While listening show honest compassion and respect. This may seem simple, though it is the first step for you to be of any assistance to this person who is including you in on a vulnerable moment in their life. Many thanks for delving into this topic with me! –Jill


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