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From: Jill Douglass
Date: 22 Oct 2012
Time: 19:52:20 -0500
Remote Name: 130.123.104.22
Hi Julius, glad to hear the article caught your eye! The short answer is no, there is no “bona fide documented evidence-based way to counsel a cover stutter.” Though, counselling has many applications to working with every individual who walks into therapy. The best thing I can suggest is to actively listen; this requires you to maintain a non-judgemental thought process, open minded, compassionate, sincere, open minded and so much more. They will understand that the information will not be used against them when you show your appreciation for their honesty. We are not meant to have all the answers nor are we here to pass judgement; we are here to help them on this discovery process. Know how to respond without judgement. I highly recommend reading more about counselling skills within our profession. Investigate the works of David Luterman, he provides us with a wealth of knowledge. Lastly, you want to make sure to not convey your understanding of your client’s experience based on your coming out process. Your experiences are your personal experiences that cannot be generalized. You want to hear of the experiences of the person in front of you. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. –Jill (j.douglass@massey.ac.nz)