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From: Bill
Date: 14 Oct 2012
Time: 21:50:50 -0500
Remote Name: 98.222.193.43
Good question. We do seperate them because they are different. Bullies start out to hurt people. Bystanders join it for a variety of reasons but mostly out of fear that they need to to protect themselves (quite complicated here and not enought time or space to really explain in detail). Also the treatment for helping bullies to stop bullying is different than what we do to help the bystander. Hope that helps a bit. Google Bullies and Bystanders and you might find something fairly qick. Bill