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From: Chris Roach
Date: 10/8/02
Time: 9:21:40 PM
Remote Name: 205.188.208.171
Melissa, thank you so, so very much for your kind words. I like what you targeted in that we all have our little differences which is what flavors our world with so much interest and curiosity. If stutterers can come to understand that stuttering, no matter how severe or not, is simply another "difference" and has nothing to do with the choices we have to pursue our dreams, loves and hopes -- just like everyone else desires. One of the best examples of someone who follows this philosophy is Russ Hicks, who's written a wonderful piece for this conference. Russ, who granted has an inescable stutter, is seen by everyone he meets, not for his stuttering, but for his simple love of life! That's what folks see and remember about Russ -- his dreams, his joys, his life.... as I wrote.
Thanks for wanting to let my observations help encourage your clients. You obviously have a clear view of what the focus should be for any stutterer -- "you're normal" like everyone else...you just talk a little funny. Remember -- people will feel normal, when they're treated normal. Seeing the stuttering client as you see anyone else (with interests in their world, their life, their hopes, etc.) will achieve miles of dignity in their eyes and because YOU'VE encouraged them as seeing their normalcy, they'll begin to see their own normalcy, thanks to you.
Melissa, best of luck in your important work. Again, thank you for participating and sharing your views. Your encouragement will make all readers feel better about themselves.
Chris