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Re: Informing the public

From: Jaan Pill
Date: 10/12/01
Time: 10:04:16 PM
Remote Name: 154.20.73.165

Comments

I'm pleased we've had the opportunity to explore this topic. I've found the discussion very helpful.

The British Stammering Association site also offers some thoughtful reflections, at http://www.stammering.org/conversation.html :

In conversation with a person who stammers

1. Speak Normally:

When speaking with someone who stammers, please try to converse in a natural and relaxed manner. If you are feeling uneasy, try not to show it. Some stammerers may find it easier if you slow down the rate of your speech slightly.

2. Listen attentively:

When listening to a stammerer, try to concentrate on what is said rather than how it is said. Give the person time to speak, and try not to appear embarrassed by the stammer. Using natural eye contact helps. In this way, the person who stammers is much less likely to be concerned about their stammer, and their speech may improve.

3. Common sense in conversation:

Try to avoid finishing off words and sentences for a stammerer, who can find this frustrating - and you may guess wrongly!

This "rule" should not be taken to extreme. Remember that normal, friendly conversation can involve lively interjection and banter.

4. Be Open about Stammering:

Do not be afraid to talk about a person's stammering. Many stammerers are only to happy to discuss the topic. However, in such conversations, please avoid giving simplistic advice (e.g. "take a deep breath", or "don't worry about it"). Although well-meant, such advice is rarely helpful.


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